It’s all about the feeling, not perfection. Your family as a whole, and the little relationships within. And that could change in 6 months to a year. In fact in my house, the favourite parent changes by the day.
I will on the odd occation ask you to look at the camera, but you will be mostly playing and interacting with each other. I’m just there to capture it. So Swing the kids around, kiss, cuddle, stroke your youngests hair, hold hands while they still want to and lets create magic.